Weave Yourself INTO Life Through Fostering Connection
"Recognition of Humanity should be the central focus of Human Existence." ~ Paulo Freire
"I dream of a world where I can lay my vulnerabilities out there, open for everyone, until they are my strengths. I am longing for this."
Harper Steele
Having healthy, loving, supportive, encouraging people in your life makes SUCH a HUGE difference.
If you don't feel you have enough of that in your life, find ways to get connected with: support groups for whatever issue you face (to find others who understand your struggle), groups aligned with your spiritual beliefs, a book club, volunteering with any organization you care about, search and expand your ideas about connecting with others.
Neuro-Tools for Increasing Connection with & Compassion for Self AND Others
BE = Brain Exercise
This practice guides you through increasing love and compassion for yourself. Observe yourself and how the experiences of life have impacted you. Through the lens of love, connect with both giving and receiving whatever is needed, fostering and growing your compassion and understanding for yourself.
Music: Meditation for Inner Peace by Peaceful Meditation Music YouTube
This practice anchors you into your stable, rooted self through the vagus nerve; balances the mind and the nervous system. Regular practice increases your connection with, and awareness of, your Vagus Nerve and nervous system state.
Music: Deep Meditative State -Find Stillness & Inner Peace by Inner Lotus Music on YouTube
This practice is the basis and foundation of Open Heart meditations. It increases love and compassion for the self and for all others sharing existing on the planet right now.
Music: Let Your Soul Speak by Inner Lotus Music on YouTube
This practice uses imagery of being both the single rooted tree AND the entire forest to Open the Heart and increase connection. Weave yourself into life.
Music: Relaxing Meditation Music Heals Mind, Body, Soul 6 YouTube
The Net of Indra: An Open Heart Meditation for Connection
Being reworked - will be up again soon!
This Open Heart NeuroMeditation increases the felt sense of being woven into the very fabric of life
Connecting with Safety helps us connect with Self-Compassion
The Cave of Safety provides a safe, and protected place to connect with our Wise Old Self. A place where we can receive whatever we need in any given moment. Through this practice we connect with the belief that we can get through difficulties and intense challenges. In addition, this safe space allows us to a place to both give and receive unconditional love and compassion. Giving this to ourselves is strengthening and empowering.
Spending time in the Cave of Safety, increases our connection with ourselves, our connection with the belief we can get through things, and our ability to create safety and love for ourselves.
The system responds and can return to calm when you send it messages of safety. This practice increases feelings of inner safety, and is helpful when you need a buffer from the world, a deep sense of safety, unconditional love and support, or when you are doing difficult work.
Music: Safe and Loved by Inner Lotus Music on YouTube
For more information, go to the SAFTEY page
Go to the Vagus Nerve and Polyvagal Theory Page for images, links and More Info
Neuro-Tools for Connecting Through & With Nature
Connecting with AWE NeuroMeditation
Awe is beneficial for everyone, especially when dealing with anything difficult. Connecting with this feeling is restorative for the brain and the nervous system (for heart, mind and body). Do this often - even for a few minutes when you are stressed/overwhelmed/hurting. This practice guides you through remembering, with all of your senses, an experience of being in a place where you FELT AWE.
Music: Innerself by Zen Celesta on YouTube
This practice uses imagery of the tree of life; drawing energy up from your roots and down from your limbs and leaves, allowing them to mingle, grow and connect you with the vitality and force of life.
Music: Tree of Life by Inner Lotus Music on YouTube
This practice anchors you in your strong, immoveable center and allows you to rest in strength as you observe all thought, feeling and sensation that arises
Music: Relaxing Meditation Music Heals Body, Mind Soul 6 by Paradise Tonight on YouTube
This practice uses imagery of being both the single rooted tree AND the entire forest to Open the Heart and increase connection. Weave yourself into life.
Music: Relaxing Meditation Music Heals Mind, Body, Soul 6 YouTube
Important Cautions!!
What is toxic positivity? How do people engaging in toxic positivity impact people who are struggling with any issue? Learn how to identify and avoid toxic positivity in yourself and in others. Additionally this discusses what to say to people who approach you with toxic positivity.
Grifters abound in the "healing" profession and community. Watch this video for some information on how to avoid those who are preying on your vulnerability, pain, suffering, difficulty and/or struggle. Be CAUTIOUS with your heart, mind and psyche - treat it with the care it deserves with choosing who you work with.
The POWER of PLAY
Leisure games especially can be so helpful for getting yourself moving, connecting with others and engaging with playfulness. This can serve as a powerful antidote to many issues.
When we connect with playfulness our Vagus Nerve is in the calm/ rest & digest and the tend & befriend state. This is when we are in neutral and homeostasis.
Living by the Law of Kindness Increases Feelings of Connection
If you live by one sole law, live by this one to increase feelings of connection and compassion for others.
For more on connecting more fully with yourself and who YOU are... go to the Know Thyself page
Interested in learning more? Click the link above for course descriptions and details.